Embrace the Uncomfortable
A couple nights ago over dinner, I asked my friend, Tim Flynn, a speech-language pathologist and a person who stutters, if he had any advice for me just starting graduate school. Tim said, “Don’t become complacent within your comfort zone.” This came the night before seeing my first individual client and I was scared half to death. Truth was, I felt uncomfortable. I was complacent with stuttering. This was beyond my comfort zone. Something I’ve never done; something I wasn’t even sure I was capable of. We have imaginary walls that define our comfort zone. It feels good to live between these barriers. Within these walls we excel at our strengths and this space becomes safe and rewarding. But we often dwell so long in this space that we forget what lies beyond. Truth is – you can’t have courage if you don’t let yourself feel uncomfortable. “We can choose courage or we can choose comfort, but we can’t have both. Not at the same time.” -Brene Brown The situations...